Seven psychological prescriptions before and after resignation
Symptom one: Angry that your boss is a fool, so you ended up saying to him “in vain”, and then, like the plot in the movie, fell through the door.
Anger makes you lose your mind.
Prescription: Please remember that if you go this way, the impression on others will always be repeated.
Your boss holds the key to your career advancement.
Think before you lose your temper.
Symptom 2: Ecstasy Your new job will bring you a $ 2.5 million budget.
When you submit your resignation, you are instigated to hold a grand celebration ball.
You are soaked in ecstasy, floating in mid-air.
Prescription: Cap your excess excitement, so as not to overflow, and “please be sad.”
Remember, there are no perfect things in the world, and there is no “similar” thing: even a “dream” job will bring problems.
Symptom 3: Sadness You know you should be happy because you resigned for a better chance.
But you find that you still miss how the former company worked.
Prescription: You just remember the reason for your resignation.
Before you leave, you are already thinking about maturity and you will survive this.
Symptom 4: Guilt When you turn in a job you think you haven’t done well enough, you want to bring back time.
You want to take on more work, but it’s time to die and you are tormented by guilt.
Prescription: You can’t do all the work by the deadline you left, and you definitely feel guilty.
Do what you can, transfer the rest, and leave.
Symptom 5: Gains and Losses You have submitted your resignation, but you are always suffering.
You always try to pick up the phone and ask if you can resign and submit.
Prescription: The “neuropathy” before this shift is too natural.
Remind yourself why you chose a new job. When you think about it, you return to your original job.
Symptom 6: Jealousy When the news of finding a new job spreads, the closest friends in your office start to give you “cold eyes”.
Prescription: Your close colleagues may feel that you have abandoned them.
Meet them for lunch and let them know that your friendship will extend beyond work.
Symptom 7: Boredom In paralysis and loss, you spend your last two weeks like a year.
Prescription: Do you want to make such an impression?
“Oh, it’s the one who has demoralized the entire office!
“You have decided to leave, why not work optimistically and harder in the last days?