The marriage crisis does something
What can be done?
Express your grief moderately, so that the man can truly realize the pain he has caused you.
You have to make him feel that you are looking forward to him so much, longing for him to come back to you, and wait for that man to dispel his defensive heart, then you will slowly reveal it, and the man may be penetrated by your true feelings.
When you are in physical contact, let him know the intimacy between you.
Cry sparingly when talking about your differences, and make the man feel that he is good to you, and you will be happy.
Take advantage of all available resources, some children’s relationship with father.
You have to hide a little for the man in the early stage. The fewer people you know, the more likely a man will turn back.
To deliberately exaggerate the life, interests, and hobbies you have together, to make a man feel that if he loses you will lose the lifestyle he likes.
Although you still have grievances and grudges, it is important to show that you have forgiven him.
Not forgiving amounts to pushing him towards another woman.
What can’t be done?
Brawling and hunting for food will make men feel like they’re in hell, and they’re frightened.
It is not advisable to disparage another woman or find her to settle accounts, let alone go to a man’s unit to make trouble.
The best thing to not do is to become overly dependent in the face of a crisis, thinking that if you make a man think you can’t live without you.
Courting men is also not advisable, and women must maintain a sense of self-esteem in times of crisis.
It is not advisable to consider the man as a victim.
It is also not advisable to provoke a child’s anger and rejection of her husband.
This is a kind of punishment. If you intend to return the man, this is totally contrary to your original intention and ruins the child’s good feelings and trust in family relationships.
What is optional or not?
Tell the crisis to common close friends, parents.
But you can’t talk everywhere like Xiang Linyi.
Consult a psychologist, especially a doctor experienced in marriage adjustment.
A psychiatrist will help you find more effective ways to fulfill your desire to protect love and your family.
At the same time, the psychologist can help you to channel your emotions, restore your confidence in marriage, heal wounds, and re-emotional management ability when facing men.
Ask a divorce lawyer and you need to plan for the worst and start thinking about family property.
In China, who advocates for evidence and lacks control over personal property, you need to find a professional to gather evidence.
Once the marriage has reached a dead end, you can immediately apply for property preservation.
Be wary of men’s delaying tactics. Generally, most morally educated men will transfer property before the divorce. When they are not completed, he will delay, or promise how much, he will turn over to you after all the assets are transferred.One, a rogue who doesn’t have money.
It is important to obtain evidence of property that has deteriorated.
Separation within marriage, or temporary separation.
Proper restraint is desirable. A woman with dignity often chooses a temporary room allocation and waits for the man to accept him when he has remorse.
Those who have an identity will choose to be separated for the time being, and everyone needs time to think.
If you don’t want a lover, don’t talk to a friend of the opposite sex.
At this time, women’s psychology is extremely fragile, and they are easily moved by the attention of the opposite sex, which will complicate the already complicated emotional problems.